When buying a house, my parents-in-law and brother-in-law don't pay, but after the renovation, everyone comes to live, when I am a soft persimmon？

　　Text/Ning Er

　　My friend Linlin has a soft personality. Anyone who meets her will praise her as a good-natured person. But recently, I heard that she kicked her in-laws out of the house, and her husband's brother and sister-in-law came to the door to argue, and she just knocked them out with a broom. Since then, the "virtuous" daughter-in-law has gained the reputation of "shrew".

　　What the hell is going on here? Let's listen to Linlin himself:

　　I married a family of two brothers. Before I got married, my parents didn't agree. I feel that there are too many things in my family with two brothers, either my in-laws are eccentric or my sister-in-law is not harmonious, and my temper is too soft, so I will definitely be bullied. However, I was carried away by love at that time and felt that as long as my husband was good to me, nothing else would matter.

　　After I got married, I didn't talk much because of my soft temper. Even if my in-laws are partial to my husband's brother and sister-in-law, I always turn a blind eye and never care. Besides, my sister-in-law is a smiling tiger. As long as she doesn't look for me face to face, we won't be awkward. Therefore, after three years of marriage, it is also peaceful.

　　I forgot to mention one thing. When I got married, my parents-in-law and my two sons cried and said, "Providing for two sons to go to college has emptied their finances. When they got married, they only gave bride price, so they really couldn't afford to buy a house. So let's live together when we get married. "

　　I didn't care at that time. After all, what my in-laws said was also true. We young people can't be old-fashioned all the time. We should strive to buy a house ourselves. Moreover, the in-laws' house is a big three-bedroom, one for the old couple, one for the elder brother and sister-in-law, and one for my husband and me after marriage, which is not bad.

　　However, this year, my mother said that I was old enough to consider having children. If you want children, you can't live with your in-laws and sisters-in-law. So, we are going to buy a house, and my parents are very supportive and directly transferred 200,000 yuan to me. However, my in-laws say that they have no money, and buying a house depends on ourselves.

　　My husband and I don't care. Anyway, we have saved a lot of money after three years of marriage. Together with my parents' 200,000 yuan, it is enough to pay a down payment to buy a small three-bedroom or a large two-bedroom apartment.

　　So, after looking at the house for a while, we decided to buy a small three-bedroom apartment. However, it is still over budget, and the down payment is still more than 50 thousand yuan. My husband just wants to borrow it from his brother and sister-in-law. After all, they haven't had children in these years, so it is estimated that they will have some savings in their hands.

　　As a result, as soon as my husband spoke, my sister-in-law said that they had no money. It was not easy to make money these years, and they didn't plan to spend money, so they didn't save any money. My husband said, "Not even 20,000 yuan?" His brother opened his mouth embarrassedly, but his sister-in-law quietly hit him back with one hand.

　　So, we had to borrow 50,000 yuan from friends and colleagues and finally bought the house. Decoration money is a direct loan. Six months after the renovation, we moved in.

　　On the day of moving out, my parents-in-law and sister-in-law took a look at the new house by helping us move things, which was also considered to be a recognition. We burned the bottom of the pot, and my in-laws gave me a red envelope of 200 yuan, and my sister-in-law also gave me a red envelope of 200 yuan. To tell the truth, it's not much, but I don't care about it.

　　As a result, less than a week after we moved here, my in-laws said that it was hot to live in the old house, and it was inconvenient to go upstairs and downstairs (there was no elevator in the old house), and they wanted to stay with us for a few days. When I think about it, it's ok. We have lived in our in-laws' house for three years, so we should let them live in our new house.

　　That is, my parents also set up 200 thousand yuan, and my husband still has a conscience. He has told my parents to let them stay for a while.

　　However, before my parents came, my husband's brother and sister-in-law came with suitcases. They said that it was inconvenient to live in the old house, it was too far to go to work, our new home was close to their place of work, and when my in-laws left, no one cooked for them, so they came to live in my house.

　　When they come, they will occupy another house, so where will my parents live when they come? I quickly called my parents and told them not to come to live in the near future.

　　It's true that when buying a house, my parents-in-law and brother-in-law don't pay, but everyone comes to live after the renovation.

　　The point is, they came to my new home as if they were at home. There is a toilet at home, which my sister-in-law occupies every day. She either takes a bath or hides in it to make up, and sometimes there is a live broadcast. I don't even know what's good in the toilet.

　　My husband's brother loves playing games. He plays games loudly in the next room every day, which makes me sleep badly.

　　My in-laws go further. Every day, they move some junk from the old house to our new home, and they also pick up junk in the community, making our new house full of paper boxes, mineral water bottles, cans, etc., and a good house has nowhere to go.

　　My husband was embarrassed to say anything, but I really couldn't stand it, so I got angry with my in-laws and told them, "Mom and Dad, we don't mind if you come to live in a new house for a while, but you can't spoil the new house like this." Also, my parents will come to live in a few days, and they have paid 200,000 yuan to buy a house, so it is only natural that they will come to live, so let's see who will vacate a house. "

　　Seeing that I said this, my husband's brother and sister-in-law moved away first.

　　Later, my parents came, and as a result, my in-laws acted like a protagonist, pressing my parents everywhere. The implication was that my parents were guests and wanted to drive my parents away, which made my parents feel particularly wronged.

　　Later, I couldn't bear it, so I yelled at my in-laws and drove them away. Then my husband's brother and sister-in-law came to the door and scolded my husband for not being filial. He bought a house and let his parents live. Anyway, his speech was particularly ugly. I was too lazy to argue with them, so I just took a broom and drove them away!

　　Tigers don't show their arrogance, when I am a sick cat! Did this family really treat me like a soft persimmon?

　　I am not afraid of losing my reputation as a "shrew". If I have a good temper, I will suffer indignities and be bullied. I will show my arrogance and drive my family out of trouble. I don't regret it. Let's judge, have I done something wrong?

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