Mo Yan： For those who hurt you, don't forgive him, and don't thank him. You should thank yourself and finally get through the hardships.

　　Mo Yan: For those who hurt you, don't forgive him, and don't thank him. You should thank yourself and finally get through the hardships.

　　There is a popular chicken soup on the Internet: "Please thank the person who tripped you, because he taught you independence; Please thank the person who has hurt you, because he has made you who you are today. "

　　I don't know how many people have been poisoned by this sentence-refusing to forgive is ironic and narrow-minded; If you are worried about the injury, you will be squandered.

　　However, in fact, the people who hurt you are not worthy of gratitude, even if you do become stronger because of those experiences.

　　It is someone else who inserts the knife and himself who draws it.

　　We should be most grateful to the self who stood up in the midst of injury, did not fall down, did not give up, faced bravely, carried on with heavy burdens, and tried to be himself.

　　Malicious is malicious, and those who hurt you are definitely not well-intentioned.

　　People who hurt others don't care about the pain of the injured person, but only care about their own safety.

　　Don't pretend to be generous, forgive those who hurt you, and don't retaliate, which is already the greatest tolerance.

　　The more unprincipled you give in to someone who hurts you, the more pushy the other person will be; When you get tough, the other person starts to become soft.

　　Forgiveness without a bottom line is conniving at others' "evil" to you, and it will only bring you bottomless harm.

　　People who have hurt you don't have to forgive, but let go. This is self-liberation.

　　Letting go is not to forgive the person who hurt you, but to solve your negative emotions.

　　In the face of those who hurt us, if we are entangled all the time, the outcome will only be mutual loss.

　　Let go of the past and start over. There are no obstacles in the world, only those who don't want to be reborn.

　　Adults' hard hearts are not born, but are forged day after day in life.

　　Never thank those who hurt you, but thank yourself for being reborn again and again in pain, and for choosing kindness after experiencing despair.

　　Mo Yan said that he was a late bloomer. After winning the Nobel Prize for Literature, he was questioned a lot. But he ignored it himself and continued to concentrate on writing.

　　The Late Mature Man is his first work after winning the Nobel Prize for Literature, and it is also a contemporary masterpiece that best represents Mo Yan's style. He thinks he is not mature and smooth enough, but late maturity will not consume his innocence.

　　With more profound wisdom and richer experience, Mo Yan described the story of little people in Gaomi, his hometown. There are more than a dozen stories in the book, each of which is so wonderful that people can't put it down and wake up at the same time.

　　In life, you and I are tired of mundane things, and it is inevitable that we will try our best to deal with various problems. If we can re-examine these disturbances from Mo Yan's master perspective, we may be able to produce new solutions.

　　Late-maturing people are clumsy, but they have a bottom line for doing things. Late-maturing people may not understand the world, but they are sincere and kind, and have the stamina to soar.

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