People over 50, no matter how well they live, should seize these ＂straws＂.

　　"Shangshu said hit": "Everything is prepared and prepared."

　　No matter what you do, you have to be prepared, so you won't encounter any problems. Being prepared is actually preparing for the worst, so as to deal with the worst events.

　　The Buddha believes that this is a world of concubines, which is full of suffering. These sufferings are impermanence. An accident, a disaster, and a little misfortune will have a great impact on life.

　　When we were young, we didn't feel impermanence and thought we could survive any difficulties. At a certain age, we gradually feel impermanence and know that we are "powerless."

　　The more you feel "powerless", the more you must have the wisdom of "planning ahead". If you don't prepare for yourself, who will? Everything can only be done by yourself.

　　People over 50, no matter how well they live, should seize these straws.

　　First, save a sum of money for yourself.

　　Oscar Wilde, a famous writer, said that when I was young, I thought money was the most important thing in life. I didn't know it until I was old, and I found out that it was really the case.

　　When we were young, we needed money to get married, have children, buy a car and buy a house. In middle and old age, we need money to support our families and ensure ourselves and our families.

　　Money, though vulgar, is the only way to elegance. There is a saying that life is not only the present, but also poetry and distance.

　　This poem and the distance are actually paved with money. Without money, life is not only in front of us, but also in the distance. The only thing that can make people live a stable life and have the right to choose is money.

　　For middle-aged people, saving money is the best choice. Never think that saving money is too conservative. You know, we are all ordinary people, and having a deposit is the king of life.

　　As the saying goes, when you are free, you can earn money when you are in a hurry, but when you are thirsty, you can't dig a well. Deposit, more or less, the family will be stable.

　　Second, try not to meddle in other people's business.

　　There are two words circulating among the people: "It's none of your business, so hang it high." "Everyone cleans the snow in front of the door, regardless of the frost on other people's tiles."

　　These words are completely different when you understand them when you are young and when you keep up with your age. When I was young, I thought these two sentences were very bad. After vicissitudes of life, I discovered that these two sentences are the truth of the world.

　　Everyone has his own life to live, so why should we care about other people's lives? Just like, we don't want others to take care of our lives. In this way, it is good to respect other people's choices.

　　Every family has its own misfortunes and difficulties, including ourselves, and there will be misfortunes and difficulties. Who is not self-reliant and fending for themselves? There are many things that others can't help.

　　It is not indifference or selfishness to mind other people's business, but a sober mind to respect the fate of others. I like this sentence very much, let go of the complex of helping others and respect the fate of others.

　　The so-called "right and wrong are only for many openings, and troubles are all due to strength." It is because we meddle, so right and wrong and troubles will come to us.

　　Third, live a low life and live a simple life.

　　In recent years, there has been such a concept, giving up. Generally speaking, we should abandon worthless people and things and give ourselves a quiet and simple space.

　　There are too many sundries piled up in the room, which will cause congestion. There are too many rotten people and things piled up in life, and we will not live happily, but will be worried.

　　After all, there is a limit to the people and things that can be accommodated in the world in our hearts. In this way, we might as well keep beautiful people and things in our hearts and eliminate meaningless people and things.

　　How can we "break away"? Just eight words, low desire to live, simple life. In the present life, don't have too many desires, just reduce your desires, simply live and be carefree every day.

　　As Tao Yuanming said, you can see Nanshan leisurely under the hedge of picking chrysanthemums. Just the word "carefree" reveals the lifelong pursuit of countless people.

　　When people reach middle age, they do not add, but subtract. Only by doing the "subtraction" to the extreme, will our mentality become more and more leisurely.

　　Fourth, listen to the heart, body and mind blend.

　　Wang Yangming, a generation of saints, believes that it is easier to break a thief in the mountains than to break a thief in the heart.

　　If you want to defeat external enemies, you only need to use some means, and the difficulty is not high. But if we want to defeat the enemy in our hearts, it will be more difficult. Maybe we will be disturbed by demons all our lives.

　　Some people are in a bad state of mind, always like to entertain foolish ideas, and their temperament becomes more and more extreme, so they will do abnormal things, not only psychologically but also physically.

　　Body and mind are not separated, but connected. If you have a good attitude, your health will be good. If you have a bad attitude, even if you have a net worth of millions, you will not feel any happiness and happiness at all, and your health is getting worse and worse.

　　In my opinion, this life is not all material, but also mentality. Mentality is like a sunny, naturally sunny, and a tree blooms. Mentality is like the moon, naturally clear and moist, illuminating the world.

　　Starting today, cultivate a good attitude and do more exercise. With the improvement of body and mind, the quality of life in this middle and old age will be higher and higher.

　　Text/Shushan has deer