What you do when you are alone determines the height of your life.

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　　Introspection in solitude

　　Someone said, "When a person is alone, he can find himself from the noise and become himself completely."

　　Solitude is not loneliness, but precipitation. Being alone is not to leave everything behind and hide, but to learn to get along with yourself. Let your heart be quiet in the noise and precipitate in the irritability; Let yourself jump out of the busyness, see yourself clearly and think about the way you want to go.

　　The vast sea of people is disturbing one after another. A person's best state is to know how to retreat in time and find his true self in the noise. When you learn to introspect in solitude, you will eventually be reborn as a butterfly.

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　　Heal oneself in solitude

　　Someone once said, "Only in solitude can a person's soul see its clarity and brightness."

　　Everyone's life will go through more or less painful periods. During that period, others can't get in, but they can only get out on their own. This is what we often call self-crossing. There are many ways to fend for yourself, and solitude is one of them.

　　The road of life has ups and downs. When you are at a low point, you might as well give yourself a space to be alone and have a spiritual dialogue. In a person's world, settle yourself down and feel that freedom and lightness. Those hazy days will eventually pass slowly, and that tired heart will heal itself in solitude.

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　　Grow up in solitude

　　When we were young, we always longed for excitement and found support in the crowd. It was not until later that I realized that a truly powerful person would not look for the meaning and value of life from other places, but become a better self in solitude.

　　People who know how to use their time alone are often more likely to gain something, because many things need to be achieved by being alone. For example, reading and sports, these eternal value-added ways, are all ladders and shortcuts for a person to advance in solitude.

　　The more outstanding people are, the more they can enrich themselves and grow up in the process of being alone. Learn to improve in the days when no one cares, and to accumulate strength in the silent time, and you will slowly find unexpected changes in yourself and quietly realize the counterattack.

　　Source: Night Reading Club, People's Daily, Author: reincarnation