How to meet people who are better than you and make friends with them？

　　Recently, I saw an interesting question. Some netizens said that there are ways to meet people who are better than themselves or who are like-minded. These people can be people who have never met in the network or who are unfamiliar in reality but can help you in some ways. How can we communicate with them deeply and become friends?

　　I was surprised when I first saw this question, but I didn't expect this kind of question to come out. In my opinion, the most basic requirement is: put the position right.

　　Most people don't put their position right at all, which is manifested in two aspects.

　　1, can not see others outstanding or refused to admit others outstanding

　　2, so ambitious

　　Let's talk about these two issues.

　　01, fail to see others' excellence or refuse to admit others' excellence.

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　　This is particularly obvious on the Internet, because the Internet likes "how to evaluate XX", and this kind of answer is basically ignored if it is well-behaved, but if it starts to criticize, it must be thunderous applause.

　　Anyway, no one else can do it, only you can do it, and then you can go back to sleep with peace of mind and feel that it is too difficult to know excellent people. I won't repeat this rotten saying. It is almost impossible for you to find a perfect excellent person.

　　In this case, it is enough to find out where you need to improve most and admit that others are doing better than you.

　　If you can't get up all the time, then the cleaner who sweeps the floor in the morning or the aunt who cooks in the canteen are better than you and are the object of your study; If you always feel that you don't work hard enough, then the migrant workers who work 12 hours a day on the construction site are better than you and are the object of your study.

　　You must know how to recognize others' Excellence.

　　You can't mix others in the mixed community, so honestly admit that you don't always think that people who fail are mixed in the community. Maybe people's reality is more exciting than yours.

　　If you always refuse to admit that others are excellent, then you will never know excellent people. You refuse to admit it anyway.

　　02, so ambitious

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　　In fact, this is related to the previous point. Once a person refuses to acknowledge the excellence of the people around him, he will start to aim high.

　　He wants to engage in academics, not from the brothers and sisters or teachers around him, but thinking about getting to know Shi Yigong;

　　He wants to start a business, not from the investors around him, but to get to know Ma Yun.

　　If Shi Yigong sees you, you can't even talk about some in-depth topics, and finally you can only take a photo with Shi Yigong and show it off everywhere.

　　If you really meet Ma Yun, then start your dream of surpassing Ali, and finally it is estimated that you will be asked to leave by the security guard without even saying two words.

　　Thinking about getting to know celebrities all the time, you shouldn't treat celebrities as fools, should you? How many people do people meet all day? Do you want to get a "are u OK" when you go to someone without any achievements?

　　Finally, I think it is particularly important to be equal, otherwise, let alone become friends. Your so-called "understanding" is just a version of "I know him well, but he is not familiar with me".

　　From now on, we must gradually make ourselves excellent, and then we can meet more excellent people. And how to make yourself excellent? Then start by acknowledging others' Excellence and learning from others' Excellence.

　　For example, sleep late less, and the only skill of sleeping too much is daydreaming; Read more and work more.