These nine life truths have awakened countless middle-aged people.

　　Wen Yi's girlfriend signed the contract author Fangcaowu

　　Many people have been escaping from their own souls all their lives, and only those with cognitive awakening dare to examine their own lives.

　　Dare to face yourself, dare to face reality, and dare to face everything, in order to grow up gradually and become strong step by step.

　　When you are good enough, you can compete with the world, otherwise you can only wait for the reality to be chopped.

　　When you are alive, you must know these 9 truths about life!

　　Mr. Yang Jiang said: "Life is nothing more than knowing yourself, training yourself, and voluntarily transforming yourself unless you are willing to be the same as an animal."

　　Life needs 360-degree thinking, and we can fully understand ourselves in order to further strengthen ourselves.

　　Charlie Munger said, "The best way to get something is to deserve it first."

　　What everyone enjoys will always match him.

　　You can't plan to work for 5000 yuan all day, but you want to get a salary of 10000 yuan in a whimsical way.

　　Lao Yang's owl once said: "Whether it's a lover, a boss or life, if you can't give up for the time being, don't complain everywhere." Because with your current vision, conditions, courage and ability, the life you complain about is probably the best life you deserve. "

　　People don't grow old in a day, and things don't happen instantly. Every day you are complaining is contributed by yourself day after day.

　　The world is cruel. You can't complain why good luck doesn't come to you, but forget that you have to fight for everything by yourself.

　　Only when you become good enough can you give up everything in the present and pursue and have what you want.

　　A girl on the internet was repeatedly rejected for blind date.

　　Worst of all, a blind date said, "I can't imagine what it's like to kiss a pig?"

　　When she heard this sentence relayed by others, the girl instantly got wet in her eyes and she began to make up her mind to lose weight.

　　Every time she wants to give up losing weight, she thinks of those supercilious eyes and taunts.

　　Two years later, after losing weight successfully, she looked at the beautiful image in the mirror with tearful eyes.

　　Interest is motivation, which will become positive reinforcement, while shame is pain, which will become negative reinforcement.

　　Just like Han Xin who was brave after knowing shame, that shame hurt his self-esteem and became his most powerful driving force.

　　Shame is others' denial of yourself, while courage is self-affirmation, which can support you to go further.

　　Netizen @ Ronger's signature is: "I want to be a carefree fat man who wants to eat and die."

　　When she just graduated, she joined a company that was "close to home with little work". Her salary was not high and her life was leisurely and comfortable.

　　One day, my mother was seriously ill, and after my father paid for the medical expenses with his life savings, my head turned white and my son became anxious.

　　She thought that if she didn't "eat and die" so much, then at least she could help after an accident at home.

　　But there is no regret medicine in life, and all the comfort brought by idleness will cut off your contact with the outside world.

　　I am most afraid that you will do nothing all your life, but you will find excuses for your mediocrity and regard the Excellence of others as the original sin.

　　Dong Yuhui said: "In this life, people should know themselves clearly, don't want to do earth-shattering things, and take good care of their lives, which is success."

　　Only by recognizing yourself can we truly face the reality.

　　Feng Tang once said: "It is not easy to be happy to recognize the cruelty of reality, but it is not easy to be disillusioned."

　　Life always teaches us to recognize the reality. Those years that we once thought were quiet and good are often the great rivers in life.

　　In the Biography of Buffett, it is recorded that Buffett visited the new york Stock Exchange when he was 8 years old, but it is not recorded that he was taken by the directors of Goldman Sachs, let alone that his father was a member of Congress.

　　In Bill Gates' biography, it is recorded that he dropped out of Harvard to start a business, but it is not recorded that his mother is a director of IBM, and it took his power to bring him the "first bucket of gold".

　　There are classes in the circle and wealth. Instead of complaining about the world's mistreatment of you, try to change your present.

　　The stronger you are, the fairer the world will be.

　　Mo Yan said: "If you succeed, farting makes sense;" If you fail, it makes sense to fart. "

　　During the Warring States Period, Su Qin lived in his brother's house and endured the ridicule of his sister-in-law every day.

　　Later, when he was honored to his hometown, his sister-in-law tried every means to please him.

　　You failed, explaining everything is an excuse. When you succeeded, the world saw that you were wearing a halo and everything you said was correct.

　　Whether you succeed or fail, you don't need to explain too much, and you have to be more calm than before.

　　There is a saying in "The Biography of Yang Jiang": "If you bow your head and push your luck, then hold your head up and straighten your waist and knock her down by hook or by crook."

　　Whether in the workplace or in life, there is competition where there are people, which is an unavoidable fact.

　　You apply for a manager position, and the enterprise provides them with a predetermined salary. If you accept it, the initiative is in the hands of others.

　　If you fight for it yourself, tell the company how much you are worth, and refuse to talk about salary if it is too low, then the control is in your own hands.

　　Only the strong have the right to choose freely, and the weak are always watching and waiting.

　　This is a winner-take-all era. You can't just wait for distribution, so you will never get anything good.

　　Recently, a mother sent a message that her son went ashore for postgraduate entrance examination, but she dared not make public, but the family closed the door to celebrate.

　　It turned out that her son was admitted to a prestigious school four years ago. When she was happy, she exposed the good news that her son was admitted to a circle of friends.

　　However, for half a day, only two people liked it.

　　At that moment, she finally understood that the greatest truth of human nature is that she would rather envy and worship strangers, but she could not tolerate the sudden improvement of close people.

　　You can be better than others, but not better than me.

　　The poet Ben Jonson once said, "Language can reveal a person best. As long as you speak, I can understand you."

　　Those words that are spoken actually reveal a person's heart.

　　There is no such thing as a knife mouth and a bean curd heart, and there is no such thing as a poisonous mouth and a kind heart. Those with good intentions will not hold a sword at all.

　　A lot of truth is spoken through jokes, which not only tests your final bottom line, but also reveals the truest side of human nature.

　　And those seemingly incomprehensible responses are just the most euphemistic refusal.

　　There is a saying in Naruto: "See the reality clearly, the world will not get everything you want."

　　Only by seeing the cruelty of reality clearly and facing it bravely can we open the closed and stubborn thinking cage and stand firm in the torrent of advancing with the times.

　　Writer Chi Li once said: "When you reach a certain age, you wake up at once."

　　Life is to wake up, to wake up in self-awareness, and to transform from reality.

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