Only the poor like to help others for free.

　　The farming society is an era when everyone likes to help each other. The relationship between people is relatively simple. At that time, there was no concept of "benefit". Helping others is also a manifestation of their own feelings and good feelings.

　　However, with the changes of the times and the development of society, we have entered the commercial society. The essence of the commercial society is the exchange of values, and all actions are centered around interests. In this society, the circulation and valuable exchange of money has become people's main concern.

　　Many people can't make money because they lack the thinking of businessmen and don't understand the essence of business activities. They don't realize that all actions revolve around interests, but think about "free" and "help", and feel that what they provide is of little value, or that their contribution is based on "emotion" and "obligation", hoping that others can help themselves like them.

　　But in the commercial society, everything should serve to make money. You provide products, services and technologies, and others enjoy your achievements, so they have to pay. This is a matter of course.

　　Many people may provide free services for word of mouth or social image, but this is only a rare individual phenomenon. In most cases, things that can create value need to be paid.

　　However, there are many poor people who like Bai Piao and help others for free. They hold the idea that others can help themselves for free when they need it, thinking that they can get benefits without spending money.

　　In fact, this idea is wrong. For valuable things, we should pay the same price in order to get the benefits we deserve. Otherwise, it will only consume other people's energy and resources, resulting in futile waste.

　　In the commercial society, we should establish a correct concept of "value", know that everyone's efforts should be rewarded accordingly, and work hard for their own development and livelihood.

　　Only when we have the thinking of businessmen and understand that all actions revolve around interests can we be in an invincible position in this society, find our own position and realize our dreams.

　　Of course, it doesn't mean that all free help is wrong. For some specific situations, we can still devote our time and energy appropriately to create some social value. However, such help should be voluntary and selective, not forced by others, and it should not cause a burden on yourself and others.

　　In addition, we should also learn to respect the efforts and efforts of others. Some people have made a lot of efforts and created a lot of value, but they have not been rewarded as they should, which is unfair. We should respect the fruits of other people's labor, their occupation and time, and give them appropriate rewards and recognition. Only in this way can we really promote social harmony and stability.

　　To keep a balance between giving and returning, even in the free help, we need to choose the right way and opportunity so that neither ourselves nor others will be harmed.

　　In a word, the concept of "benefit" in commercial society has penetrated into our daily life. We need to have a correct concept of "value" and understand that all actions revolve around interests, so as to gain a foothold in this society and strive for our own development and livelihood.