Mo Yan： Always remember to respect clothes before people, skin before soul. When people reach a certain age, what they fight for is the ability to break the circle and the ability to reshape.

　　Mo Yan: "Always remember to respect clothes before people, skin before soul.". When people reach a certain age, what they fight for is the ability to break the circle and the ability to reshape. If you can't keep breaking the circle, you will be trapped by reality; If you can't keep growing, you will be eliminated by the times. Take the initiative to break the circle, constantly reshape, and live your life as you want. "

　　Financial writer Abel Le said: "A person's best brand is appearance."

　　The era of valuing talent over appearance has long passed, and showing off is as important as benefiting China.

　　A person's external image is directly related to the success or failure of his social activities.

　　Disciple's Rules says: "The crown must be straight, the knot must be tied, and socks and shoes must be tight."

　　It was only at a certain age that I discovered that it is true to respect Luo Yi first and then others.

　　In fact, as long as people who live in real life can feel that the beauty of the mind can be cultivated, and the image is very bad.

　　Ingrid, a world-famous iconologist, said: This is a two-minute world, one minute to let others know you, and the other minute to let others appreciate you. And opportunities often slip away in these two minutes.

　　The longer you work hard in the society, the more you can deeply realize that ability is hard to see for a while, and the impression given by appearance is very important, and the image will always be ahead of ability.

　　Psychologist Mari Bean has also come to the conclusion through research:

　　The impression left by two people on each other depends on 38% of the voice, 7% on the content of the speech, and the remaining 55% on the external image.

　　Because, in the adult world, no one has the obligation to understand your true inner self through your unkempt outer appearance.

　　Therefore, always remember to respect clothes before people, skin before soul. You should know how to use your strength to make a good image your life booster.

　　German writer Bly said, "Destiny is not an opportunity, but a choice. We should not expect the arrangement of destiny, and we must create it by our own efforts."

　　There are three chances to change your destiny in life. If you can take the initiative to seize it, you may change your life.

　　First time, family of origin, second time, marriage, third time, self-awakening.

　　What kind of family you are born in depends on luck, what kind of marriage you have depends on fate, and only self-awakening can be achieved by each of us through hard work.

　　Because, if you don't try to break through yourself, you will be abandoned by the times; If you don't continue to reshape yourself, you will never get out of the limitations of the present.

　　Therefore, when people reach a certain age, they must have the ability to break the circle and the ability to reshape.

　　Get out of the comfort zone.

　　People have a habit that they always like to stay in a comfortable and familiar environment. Once this "comfort zone" is established, you will become extremely dependent, and slowly fall in love with the surrounding walls and this comfortable hut, so you don't want to fly out to see it, for fear of seeing the bustling world outside.

　　People who stay in the comfort zone forever and don't come out, their life can't be said to be a failure, but it is doomed to be mediocre.

　　Only when a person's comfort zone is broken can he see breakthrough and Excellence, thus bringing lasting happiness.

　　The real strong, when they were young, experienced vicissitudes, resolved the confusion, learned to be strong, and learned to heal. They can live anywhere, where is the comfort zone, where is their own paradise.

　　Therefore, people should try to tear down the wall in their minds while they are young, and try to see what the world is like, so that they can survive in any environment.

　　Upgrade your circle of friends.

　　The circle of ordinary people is talking about wages and thinking about tomorrow; The circle of wise people talks about the pattern and thinks about value-added.

　　A high-quality circle can bring you a steady stream of contacts, and high-quality contacts can create unlimited possible value.

　　Why do so many people spend 31.5403 million yuan to have lunch with Buffett? It is because jumping out of one's own circle and contacting successful people and changing the original thinking will turn 31.54 million yuan into 300 million or even 3 billion yuan.

　　Constantly improve your ability, sort out your key figures, make rational use of social software to find a platform, and learn to cooperate with others.

　　Break through the cognitive circle, tear down the wall of thinking, boldly contact the high-quality circle, optimize your circle, and make yourself more cattle.

　　Therefore, we should strive to break through our mediocre circle, get closer to people who are better than ourselves, and take a step forward, which will give us more opportunities and more possibilities.

　　There is a saying: "Life is to extract the essence from complicated experiences and remould itself, not to refuse to grow and be self-indulgent".

　　Life is also a process of refining pottery, and people should develop the ability to remold wounds like pearls, and turn them into life wounds and beautiful pearls.

　　Only when people dare to improve themselves can they become strong and shining.

　　Life is a long track. Stagnation is retrogression, and continuous breakthrough is progress.

　　Really powerful people often have super remolding ability, constantly self-discipline and upgrading, in order to change and grow.

　　All the strong people in the world break the status quo again and again before they finally climb a higher ladder, so we all have to learn to reinvent ourselves.

　　Remodeling the body.

　　The second half of life is about mentality and health. Regular work and rest, reasonable diet, proper exercise, pay attention to health.

　　When you are well, you will find that everything is fine, life has surprises every day, and there are miracles everywhere.

　　Rebuild the image.

　　To reshape your life, please start with reshaping your figure and cultivating your temperament, and be self-disciplined in diet, emotion and time.

　　Self-discipline, dedication, perseverance, control, perseverance in adversity, will decorate this long distance with fragrant flowers, wear branches and brush leaves, step over thorns and usher in the light.

　　Rebuild your heart.

　　People often speak highly of Chen Daoming: "There are many obsequious people in the world, and only the monarch remains the same".

　　After he became famous overnight, he was frivolous and impetuous. Fortunately, he later learned to reshape and sublimate his heart.

　　The richer a person's heart is, the stronger he is, and the more successful he will be.

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　　The meaning of life is not repetition, but remodeling.

　　As Zhou Guoping said: "With a healthy body and a quiet soul, you are happy and you are a happy person."