Wise men consume less, fools consume less, and average people consume less.

  Laziness consumes time; Work hard and consume the body; Worry consumes the spirit.

  It seems that no matter what we do, we will consume ourselves. There is no perpetual motion machine, and there is no one who will live forever.

  More and more people want to live a life without consumption. But all this, it is really difficult to do.

  If you observe carefully, you will find that people have different consumption methods at different levels.

  01

  A wise man consumes little.

  Seriously consider, walking will consume physical strength, eating will consume food, and talking will consume relationships; Lying still will consume time. ......

  Since we can't lose 100% of what we consume, we should live a low-consumption life, slow down the consumption and enjoy the process of consumption.

  Read a joke.

  A couple are chatting.

  The wife asked gloomily, "Husband, you found five objects before you married me. And you are my first love, which is so unfair. "

  After that, my wife was particularly wronged.

  The husband patted his wife on the shoulder and said, "Wife. I swore from the beginning that I would find you. So, in the vast sea of people, I took the time to search-I found that the first one was not you, the second one was not you, and the third one was not you ... But my sincerity moved God and I finally found you. "

  The wife smiled at once.

  It can be seen that people who can live a low-consumption life are "always stop loss". As Zeng Guofan said: "I didn't love in the past, but I don't care now, and I won't welcome you in the future."

  Orison Madden wrote in the Law of Attraction: "The greatest weakness of human beings is self-devaluation-self-contempt.

  You have lost the past, and you don't know what you will become in the future. The present you are the best you can be. Therefore, you should walk steadily and live happily.

  Simply put, don't be too demanding to become a rich man, and don't be content with the status quo. It's right to make money according to the actual situation and lose your desire.

  Work hard, but refuse to work overtime and stay up late, reduce unnecessary entertainment, don't eat and drink, don't be busy and leisurely, and your state will be particularly elegant.

  02

  Fool's internal friction.

  People are used to making a mistake-what to do deliberately in order to lose something.

  Because to solve one troublesome thing, do two troublesome things. They are breathless with fatigue and are always on the way to "reduce internal friction".

  At one time, the video "Three days back to the village, my second uncle cured my mental internal friction" attracted everyone's attention.

  It took the author a few days to shoot and then spread it online. Surprisingly, it resonated.

  Next, in order to avoid repeated inquiries from others, the author had to hide my uncle temporarily.

  After a while, the author also spent a lot of time to clarify the truth of the video and explain the specific situation.

  Using logical thinking to analyze, isn't a series of operations more internal friction? In other words, use the time and energy consumed to resist mental unhappiness. But in the end, the spirit is still in internal friction.

  At the end of the Northern Song Dynasty, an official named Jia Mou was greedy and cheated a merchant of his money. He took out the silver and looked at it. He found the merchant's name engraved on it. So, he had to put the silver back into the furnace.

  He got the money, but suddenly he bought a field and opened a shop for fear that others would suspect him. As a result, I didn't spend that money all my life, so I lived a worried life.

  Use new troubles to drive away old ones. Such a thing is undoubtedly "gilding the lily" and painstakingly drawing a bunch of "feet", but it can't hide people's ignorance.

  In order to study, I deliberately bought a bunch of books, only to find that they didn't like them, and then I started the self-reproach mentality of "why buy books" and was annoyed at spending a sum of money.

  I bought a big stereo for dancing, but my home is on the tenth floor, so it is difficult to move the stereo. As a last resort, I bought a house on the first floor and put down the stereo. But after a while, I found that I didn't like dancing and liked fishing. Therefore, the sound is chicken ribs.

  In order to find a good wife and mother, men go to great pains and set up many rules and regulations. He finally reached the age of forty, only to find that there was no suitable object, and he was depressed because he became an older man.

  Internal friction didn't fall from the sky. The truth that "he who unties the bell must tie it" tells us that foolish people are blindly pursuing their desired goals without adapting to society and looking back on themselves.

  03

  He who is flat has no consumption.

  Zhuangzi told two stories.

  A king trained cockfighting and locked the chicken up. After a few months, the cockfighting lost its spirit and was indifferent to everything outside. The other chickens were scared away by its aura. And this cockfighting did nothing.

  A huge crooked-neck tree can't make furniture, let alone be a pillar. So the workers did nothing about the tree. The trees grew up and formed a shade, which provided a place for the workers to rest.

  People call Zhuangzi's idea "governing by doing nothing".

  Can we also enter the role of Zhuangzi? If you don't pursue wealth and wealth, don't become the smartest person in the world, and don't expect to live forever, you can do it.

  Admitting that you have no ability, you have been ordinary all your life, and it seems that you have no future. In fact, you have "known yourself" and know what material you are, thus giving up blind tossing.

  Plain is true, and peace is bliss. Peace of mind, everything is pleasing to the eye.

  A consumption-free life is a realm of life, not eating, drinking or doing nothing. I'm just used to following the trend, developing naturally, living in harmony with foreign things, dare to be ordinary, dare not, and dare to give up.

  In Zhuang Zide's Fu Fu, it says: "If the water is flat, the water will stop. It can be the law, and it can be kept inside and not swayed outside. Virtue is the cultivation of harmony. If virtue is shapeless, things cannot be separated. "

  At the moment when we put our hearts at rest, nothing was light. Can temporarily "no consumption", in a comfortable and noble state.

  04

  Jin Weichun, who has the title of "the first gifted scholar in the world". When he was chatting, his friend asked, "If life was so simple that there was only one thing left, what would it be?"

  He said without hesitation: "This thing is' living well', and there is nothing else in life except' living well'."

  Ask yourself, how are you going to live?

  It should be the best way to live if you don't demand how you live, do what you want from your heart and don't be disturbed by foreign things.

  Everyone is unique, and most people are mediocre. Why stipulate what they become?

  Author: coarse food in cloth.

  Pay attention to my words and walk into your heart.

  The pictures in this paper come from the network.