How many formulas do you know for talking?

  We, as medical representatives, have really seen many people who talk to people and talk nonsense.

  They all become monkeys in the Monkey King after plucking their hair. You cheat me and I cheat you to see who wins.

  Finally, no one keeps winning. There is progress in both changes.

  This sentence generally means, not specific to which category, don't substitute yourself.

  Really powerful people, there are formulas for talking.

  What he does is what he does. To sum up carefully, there are formulas for high emotional intelligence.

  First, I found a very interesting phenomenon. In the upper class, everyone favors people, while in the middle class, people crowd people. In the lower class, people trample on people, and the more powerful they are, the more she speaks well, the more she praises everyone.

  Speak with your hands full, because praise is the most cost-free method, but it is also the method with the highest rate of return. If you give others a beauty, others will naturally return you a gentleness.

  Second, when communicating, we should pay attention to what others say, not what they say, but many people are the other way around, not looking at what others say, and they are obsessed with their attitude and tone.

  Who the hell are you, so cross, are you putting on airs for Lao Tzu? Actually, I'm here to deliver money

  Third, don't speak too fast, pause for a few seconds, and then think it over. Keep your heart straight, but don't speak fast. Speaking fast may make your mind bright, but it will give people the impression that you are not stable enough.

  Therefore, there is a saying that "noble people speak late." Just let me listen. I'm afraid you won't listen. Please finish talking. The company also taught me to ask open-ended questions, closed-ended questions, and raise wool. There are a lot of people waiting behind me.

  Fourth, keep your voice down, just because the other person can hear you clearly, thinking that the louder your voice will make sense. In fact, in the eyes of others, you are a bitch. A truly confident person speaks firmly and never shouts. (I was particularly guilty when I wrote it)

  Don't talk about me either. I'm very targeted, and I know who I'm talking to loudly and quietly.

  Fifth, don't talk too straight, always turn around and say that people who embarrass others in public will not be welcome wherever they go. They should always give others a way out and leave a way out for themselves.

  Sixth, don't always think about correcting others. Even if you are right, you don't have to prove others wrong. Communication is to reach a consensus. Once you have the attitude of correcting others, you can't reach a consensus.

  Every time these six points are used well, EQ will rise to a higher level.

  It is impossible to make money with low emotional intelligence. All self-made rich people are very high, without exception.

  The real emotional intelligence is to manipulate others' emotions, serve yourself, let others cooperate with you willingly and help you make money happily.

  Most poor people can't control their emotions, and their emotions are written on their faces. Many people even regard their happiness as an advantage and are complacent.

  Being straight before the age of 20 shows that you are simple and kind.

  Having a straight temper after the age of 20 shows that you haven't experienced many pits, and some have fallen.

  Emotion, only by controlling yourself can you control others.

  Control other people's emotions quietly, and you win the world.