Which is more important, ability or worldly wisdom？

　　Which is more important, ability or worldly wisdom? Can we define it this way? The worldly wisdom is itself an integral part of ability.

　　It's just that some people regard ability more as IQ and the world as EQ. Think of ability as long-term and hard-earned, and think of the world as short-term and a way to find shortcuts.

　　Since it is someone else's definition, can you have your own definition?

　　Ability is rational, the way of the world is emotional, and high emotional intelligence is not the way of the world, but the ability to please yourself, make people happy and comfortable, and at the same time promote the goal!

　　I don't think you need to struggle. Which is more important, ability or the world? When you are incapable, you have to know the most basic way of the world. Since everyone thinks this may be a shortcut, why don't you go? Then if you know the way of the world and have good ability, isn't that the perfect combination of reason and sensibility?

　　There is a saying that the world is in tatters, but there are always people mending it. One of the officials in the late Qing government I admire most is Li Hongzhang. At that time, he wanted to build the railway under the stigma of ill intentions, traitors and thieves, but everyone from Cixi to officials in the DPRK, from local governments to ordinary people did not agree with him to build the railway, because most people would only look at the problem from their own interests.

　　Li Hongzhang won one tough battle after another, not by his power, his position, or how much money he had, but by his worldly wisdom, thus gradually gaining the approval of Empress Dowager Cixi, ministers around him, and even ordinary people, and finally building the Tang Xu Railway.

　　What is worldly wisdom? I'll tell you a few things. You can test yourself. Do you understand the world?

　　1, friends, colleagues treat you to dinner, do you go empty-handed, or bring some small gifts, in addition to alcohol and tobacco, I usually buy some seasonal fresh fruit in the street, to show respect, two people don't blame, better communication and communication to promote relations;

　　2, when others praise you? You smile and say thank you! Or praise it back? Lu Yu interviewed Bo Huang and said that you are very angry now in Bo Huang! Bo Huang said, that can't help but fire? Are sitting in front of Lu Yu, interviewed, you say, can not fire! ?

　　3. What do you think is the essence of interpersonal communication? If you can blurt out four words, value exchange! That shows that you know the way of the world. If you think the content I prepared for you is ok, what value do you think you can give me in exchange? A compliment or a recommendation is enough.

　　4. Do you think you can speak? You can tell whether you are flattering or praising, whether you are mean or humorous, whether you are outspoken or frank. Are you sure you are polite or servile? Are you a knife in your mouth and a heart in your heart? Or a tofu mouth and a knife heart?

　　People who know the way of the world may not do a beautiful job, but they must speak beautifully!

　　People who know the way of the world are good at using a bottle of water and two cups of milk tea to quickly draw closer and gain a good impression;

　　People who know the world. Always take what you want, put the villain before the gentleman, and never try to change others;

　　People who know the way of the world always talk about smiles and praises at any time, identify with others everywhere and affirm others' praise;

　　People who know the way of the world will never be blx. Once they refuse, once they laugh, once they fail, they will be broken.