People with real inner strength： don't complain when it's difficult, don't complain when it's bitter, and don't celebrate when it's happy!

　　As the old saying goes, "flowers are not red for a hundred days, but people are not good for a thousand days."

　　In this life, people will climb to the top of the mountain and fall to the bottom; There are moments of high light and joy, and there are also days of difficulties and hardships.

　　Some people, as soon as they encounter difficulties, begin to complain, get lost and never recover.

　　Those who are really strong in heart will regard ups and downs as normal, regard life as a Dojo, be difficult without complaining, be bitter without complaining, be happy without celebrating, and thus master the steering wheel of life.

　　It is a pattern to be difficult without complaining.

　　Laozi once said: "Qu is complete, waste is straight, depression is surplus, and we are new."

　　After experiencing setbacks, we can fully reflect; Only by going through detours can we clear the direction; Being in a low-lying place will fill you; Pushing away old knowledge can build new knowledge.

　　A truly powerful person understands that when he is in trouble, he should reflect on himself and enrich himself instead of complaining about others and fate.

　　Only by turning a crisis into a turning point and a dilemma into an opportunity can we truly break the situation and change our destiny. Once upon a time, there was a businessman named Zhang Ping in the south who opened a wine shop.

　　Because I never sell fake wine, I have always had a good reputation and many guests come and go.

　　Once, because the wine shop was very busy, the guys in the shop accidentally bought a batch of wine that was not very mellow.

　　After being known by the guests, business became more and more bleak. Everyone accused and complained about the man, but Zhang Ping didn't speak, just smelled the wine.

　　A few days later, the shop reopened.

　　It turned out that after Zhang Ping smelled the wine, he found that although it was not as strong as other wines, it had a fruity smell.

　　So a new product was introduced, and many people praised it after tasting it, and the business turned around. The wise man said, "A gentleman seeks himself, while a villain seeks others."

　　The weak always complain about others, while the strong are introspecting themselves. Complaining will produce great negative energy and make people get deeper and deeper.

　　The more difficult it is, the more you have to stop complaining, so that you can think calmly, understand the law of things and find the root of the problem.

　　It is a big pattern for a person to be difficult without complaining.

　　Bitterness without complaint is a kind of maturity.

　　As the old saying goes: "Tao can be Tao, but it is extraordinary;" The name can be named, very famous. "

　　The truth that can be said is not the real truth; The pain that can be expressed is not real pain.

　　Many times, the darkest road is unaccompanied; The deepest pain is unspeakable. Bitterness without complaint is not only a transparent feeling of life, but also a sign of a mature person.

　　In ancient times, there was a young man crying by the river. There happened to be a woman doing laundry next to her.

　　The young man said to the woman, "My life is really too bitter. I was falsely accused by a villain, not only lost my official position, but also was locked up and suffered a lot. Is there anyone so unfortunate in this world?"

　　After listening to this, the woman said thoughtfully, "My husband died early. Not long ago, his only son died in the battlefield, and his daughter-in-law remarried. It rained heavily yesterday and the old house collapsed. "

　　The young man said in surprise, "Then why do you look so calm?" The woman talked and said, "I still have to live."

　　Yes, life always has unpredictable storms and uncontrollable changes, but life always goes on.

　　The destinies of mankind are not interlinked, and everyone has unspeakable sufferings, and no one understands the sadness. As a writer said, "People who have not suffered in the long night are not enough to talk about life."

　　Instead of constantly complaining and indulging in the past, it is better to calm down, look to the future and take the road ahead.

　　It is a kind of realm to be happy but not proud.

　　"Chapter 15 of the Tao Te Ching" says: "A husband is not profitable, so he can cover up and become new." Only when a person is not complacent and unassuming can he avoid disasters and go far.

　　Many people are often able to keep a modest and low-key posture when they are frustrated, but when they are proud, they often get carried away and get themselves into trouble and lead to bad luck.

　　I have seen such a story: when the woodcutter was chopping wood in the mountains, he met an injured fox and took it home to recuperate. When he left, the fox gave the woodcutter a fox fur coat.

　　This coat is a rare treasure with bright color, and the woodcutter loves it very much. One night, several villagers stayed here.

　　The woodcutter warmly entertained them, drank three rounds, said it proudly, and took out his coat for everyone to watch.

　　I didn't want one of them, and I gave birth to evil intentions. I wanted to steal the coat while everyone was asleep. The woodcutter found me. In desperation, the man injured the woodcutter and ran away with the coat.

　　There is an old saying: "Every time you become famous on a poor day, you lose because you are proud." People with a high realm not only know how to accumulate strength in adversity, but also know how to converge light in prosperity.

　　People's hearts are the most unpredictable. If you know how to hide, you can avoid disasters and walk smoothly.

　　There is a cloud in the "Small Window": "Where the flowers are crowded and the willows are dense, it is the means to open them; When the wind is raging and the rain is urgent, you can stand still and see your feet. "

　　Everything in life is impermanent. No matter how powerful a person is, there are times when he is helpless; Even the most successful people have painful and helpless things.

　　The most essential difference between people is the mentality when facing the situation, and the winner of the final life is often the person with a strong heart.

　　When the valley is in trouble, don't complain, wait for the opportunity, and turn over against the wind; When it is difficult and painful, don't complain, calm down and move on; When you are happy, don't get lost, gain insight into human nature, and keep a low profile. The weak complain, the strong change; Fools make public, but wise men converge.

　　For the rest of my life, I hope that when we are against the wind, we can stand on the foundation; When the wind is downwind, keep your direction steady. Have a strong heart and control the direction of fate.