Mo Yan said: Don't make friends with people who are too sophisticated. Believe it or not, those who are particularly good at being human, articulate and have high emotional intelligence will especiall

  Mo Yan said: Don't make friends with people who are too sophisticated. Believe it or not, those who are particularly good at being human, articulate and have high emotional intelligence will especially calculate people in private.

  It's hard to understand this thing! Think too much, be narrow-minded; Think less, have no mind; Forget it, simpleton.

  People in this era are more and more quick-witted, with more and more fake expressions, more and more thoughts, less and less sincerity, more and more vain work, and more and more slippery life, which can be said to be a smart game.

  Some "smart people" talk and do things in the same way, and some even do things in a series of ways. The person who is slow and stupid is the one who will be trapped, and even can't react after being trapped for a long time.

  People who are too sophisticated can't be friends. Try to stay away from such people. If you have been cheated by such people once, if you don't stay away from him, he will try to cheat you a second time, and after he has cheated you, he will still think, look at this fool being cheated again. This is the biggest insult to you.

  In fact, people can be refined, but not "too refined." Too refined is "stupid", which will only make people stay away from it and make themselves "have no way to go".

  Life is not a battlefield, there is no need to compete. Between people, we still need more kindness and sincerity.

  Ceng Zi said: "People are good, although the blessing has not arrived, it is far from disaster."

  It means that being kind to others may not come soon, but the disaster has gradually drifted away.

  Sincerity is the highest emotional intelligence in the world. The true high EQ is respect, generosity, frankness and truth, not hypocrisy, tactfulness and unprincipled lies.

  All calculations are the best, only sincerity is the most natural. Being frank and honest is the foundation of our life.

  Being hurt by life, still loving life, being stung by human nature and still believing in people's hearts are the real heroes in life.

  Time always makes people feel as they grow up.

  A person's kindness may be misunderstood as stupidity; Kindness may be misunderstood as stupidity. But in fact, they are not stupid at all. They just want to get along with the world in a simple and simple way.

  Chaplin once said, "Everything that happens around me is an invitation for me to grow up".

  It is good to see through things; People, just see through. Between people, it's just a heart-to-heart exchange.

  No need to sigh, look down on human feelings and see the world clearly. If you are sincere, I will be sincere; You pretend, and I won't play with you.

  The road of life, after all, depends on oneself to walk slowly. I hope that in the future, each of us can be fearless, cherish ourselves, live freely in the way we like, and live freely, without mistreating every true feeling or catering to every hypocrisy.

  Mo Yan's words can always give people a wake-up call and enlightenment. Reading his new book "Late Mature Man" can bring you some life wisdom and make you have a happier and smoother life.