Mo Yan said： There is only one reason when a person does not contact you or blacken you.

　　Mo Yan said: There is only one reason when a person does not contact you or blacken you.

　　In this world, not all contacts can continue, and not all companionship can last for a long time.

　　There are always some people who have some feelings and are scattered in the drifting away.

　　If one day you find that a person neither contacts you nor blackmails you, then you are no longer important.

　　Interpersonal relationship is not simple, it will change over time.

　　We may notice that some people no longer take the initiative to contact us or delete us from social media.

　　This situation raises some key questions: When a person stops contacting you actively and does not delete you from social media, does it mean that you have lost importance to him?

　　The relationship between people is uncertain, and the partnership may be short-lived.

　　Various factors in life, such as work, family and interests, will change interpersonal relationships. We may alienate some people, or they may alienate us.

　　Some people may not be able to allocate enough time and energy to maintain all interpersonal relationships.

　　Some people will become more inclined to think and explore independently when they grow up.

　　When some people no longer contact you and don't blacken you, we shouldn't interpret or blame ourselves too much.

　　Everyone has his own life track and needs, which may weaken or interrupt the contact between people.

　　We must accept this fact, instead of relying too much on others' recognition and companionship to confirm our value.

　　Cherish the important people and relationships in your heart.

　　They give us support, understanding and love and have a positive impact on our lives.

　　Everyone should learn to say to important people at an appropriate time: "Thank you for having you by my side."

　　Sometimes, we may be eager for each other's attention and companionship, and even rely too much on them to get a sense of security and satisfaction.

　　However, this excessive dependence may put pressure on the other side to avoid us. Or in the process of communication, we may lack listening and patience, criticize others too much or control too much.

　　These problems will affect our communication with others and make them feel uncomfortable or multiply the pressure.

　　In this case, we can try to change the way we interact with others.

　　First of all, we can cultivate good communication skills. This means learning to listen, respect each other's views and feelings, and express your own thoughts and feelings.

　　Next, we can strive to develop healthier interpersonal relationships. Set our own boundaries while respecting others' boundaries.

　　Learn to accept others' opinions and feelings with sincerity and give them plenty of space and freedom. At the same time, we should also control our emotions and critical behaviors, and respect the autonomy and choice of others.

　　If the final result still doesn't meet expectations, we should learn to accept and let go, and don't overemphasize the importance of this result.

　　In the adult world, changes in relationships are commonplace.

　　Once we met and hated each other, laughed and shared, and depended on each other and supported each other. However, as time goes by, we gradually find that not all contacts can continue.

　　We are drifting away, not because the fate is not deep enough, but more because of the change of life and the different personal trajectories.

　　The fate between people can't be completely grasped, and the fate can't be decided by people. It is also the normal state of life to drift away.

　　There is no need to doubt what you have done wrong. Different stages of life will have different experiences.

　　In the face of emotional countercurrent and indifference of others, learn to leave silently, leaving others some space while retaining their dignity.

　　Life is like a trip, everyone has his own favorite scenery and things, and it is only a matter of time before we part ways.

　　Don't waste your energy and time to pursue those who are no longer important.

　　Don't force others, say goodbye to each other in a polite way.