How can an honest man not be bullied？ Kindness should have a sharp edge

　　I don't think the word "honesty" is a good word at any time.

　　When I was young, people said to me, "You are so honest."

　　Guess what I was thinking? When I heard the word "honesty", I felt like shit in my ears. I was thinking: people are not saying that I am honest at all, but that I am stupid, that my head is not working, that I don't understand the world, that I don't know how to be a man, and so on.

　　I remember that the elders at that time taught their children not to be so honest, otherwise it would be difficult to get a wife when they grew up.

　　At that time, I also heard some elders educate their children like this: "Don't be too honest, honest people are easy to suffer and be bullied."

　　It is precisely because of this that whenever someone tells me the words "Hello, honesty", I feel humiliated. Since I was a child, I have known that honesty means being bullied at a loss.

　　Honest people are easy to suffer losses and be bullied, which is summed up by their elders. Maybe they have experienced it, so they all think that "honesty" is not good for themselves.

　　I was a very honest boy when I was a child. I remember that when I was in primary school, those naughty students often bullied those honest and timid students, and I was the one who was bullied.

　　My friend, who is with me, is very outgoing and courageous. The naughty students tried to bully him at first, but they never dared to bully him again when they knew he didn't dare. Instead, all the naughty students ran away to make way for him when he passed the classroom corridor.

　　I am not so lucky. Those naughty classmates know that I am an honest and timid person who doesn't like to make trouble. In the classroom, when there is no teacher after class or in class, they come to my desk to pull my ear, pull my hair and hit my face.

　　At that time, I was too honest to resist, let him bully me, and sometimes I avoided it, but it was useless to hide in class, because I couldn't leave the classroom, and sometimes I was bullied and cried, so I didn't tell my teachers and parents because I was too timid to speak.

　　Seeing that I was a bully, those classmates went too far and tore my clothes. It was that time that I finally broke out and beat the leading classmate and made him cry.

　　Although I am honest and timid, I am taller than those classmates, and because I often do farm work and housework when I was a child, my body is relatively thick, so I won't lose when I fight with those people.

　　After the leading classmate was beaten and cried by me, the other students didn't dare to come forward to help, so they all chickened out. He clamored for his parents or brother to clean me up.

　　As a result, his parents or brother didn't come the next day. Maybe he was ashamed, too. He bullied others first.

　　Since then, they have never bullied me, not to mention them, even those students in other classes who are "dragging" dare not bully me.

　　Since this incident, I have also learned the truth that "people are good at being bullied, and Ma Shan is riding". Everyone is bullying the weak and afraid of the hard, and blindly forbearing will only make those who bully you more arrogant. As the saying goes, "Do it when it is time to do it."

　　People need kindness, but kindness must have a sharp edge.

　　Kindness is to be kind to others, and kindness+sharpness is to protect kindness from bullying. In order to punish evil and promote goodness, as long as you don't bully others, you are a good person with indomitable spirit, and you don't need to care too much about the opinions and opinions of villains.

　　After that incident, I understood that it is not important whether people are honest or not. What is important is that they should have attitude and self-confidence. Honesty is just a comment from others, and taking it too seriously can only bother them.

　　If you have kindness+sharpness, self-confidence and attitude, you are not afraid of people who bully the weak and fear the hard.