The 35-year-old man thought that his girlfriend was Bai Fumei, but never thought that she was actually a small green tea, and hurriedly broke up.

　　My name is Xiao Wang. I am 35 years old and I am a white-collar office worker. Half a year ago, I met the girl Xiao Fang on a blind date. It was love at first sight, and I thought she was as beautiful, delicate and temperamental as Bai Fumei in TV series.

　　Xiao Fang is very delicate, with long straight hair, big eyes and fair skin. She wears brand-name clothes and speaks softly. Xiao Fang told me that she was working as a secretary in a foreign company, and her family was well-off. I feel that Bai Fumei, who is beyond my level, is willing to be with me. I am so excited that I am at a loss.

　　We quickly confirmed our relationship. Xiao Fang is very dependent on me and wants me to take her out for dinner and shopping from time to time. She hardly pays, but makes me pay. I think as a man, I should be able to raise a girlfriend, so I accepted it gladly.

　　A few months later, Xiao Fang asked me to get married. I was embarrassed. I thought it was still early, but I couldn't bear to refuse because of her delicate posture. Just as I was preparing to get married, I happened to see Xiao Fang's social account and found that she had several boyfriends, often sending intimate photos with different men.

　　I was shocked. Originally, I regarded Bai Fumei's dream lover as a little green tea with half-hearted feelings! I was so angry that I sent her a message on the spot and broke up. I never wanted to see this little rose essence again.

　　Xiao Fang sent a string of cries, but I have seen her for what she really is. Later, I heard from a friend that she continued to hook up with three and build four. I finally let go of this relationship and warned myself that I should not be confused by my appearance and take precautions against small green tea.

　　Just when I was caught in the painful reflection of remorse, Xiao Fang suddenly appeared in front of me, crying and begging me not to leave her. She hugged my leg and cried bitterly, and the scene was very unbearable.

　　I try to be rational and keep away from it. Xiao Fang is dead to tie up lousy dozen, said she can change, it was her fault before, hope to give her a chance to start over. I sneered and said that a liar is always a liar and can't change the essence.

　　When Xiao Fang saw that she was weak, she immediately turned her face and denounced my incompetence. She would only enjoy the convenience she gave, but could not afford the life that an excellent girl should have. I had a big fight with her and finally slammed the door angrily.

　　Just when I wanted to cut off contact with Xiao Fang forever, a phone call from her came with a sad voice, saying that she was ill in hospital and needed me to pay huge medical expenses. I am alert that this may be another trick she cheated me, but if it is true, I can't bear to leave it alone.

　　While struggling to eat this, a friend came to me and put a photo of Xiao Fang seducing other rich second generation in front of me. This finally confirms that she is still working as a traitor. Only then did I resolutely cut off all thoughts that I might be deceived again.

　　After this series of events, I finally realized the true face of Xiao Fang. She is a selfish, duplicitous little person. I must draw a clear line with her, otherwise she will only use and play with her.

　　I talked to Xiao Fang face to face for the last time. I told her.

　　We must stop here. This woman is not the ideal type I want. There is no possibility between us. Xiao Fang also wanted to say something, but when he saw my firm eyes, he could only turn away angrily.

　　I breathed a sigh of relief and finally got rid of this psychological burden. I reflect on my need to grow, but I can't be confused by appearances. With this love experience, I moved on more soberly.

　　In the new company, I met my new colleague Li Yang. Li Yang is lively and lovely, serious and responsible, and has the same interests as me. This time, I will not repeat the same mistakes, but get to know her patiently. Maybe this is my true other half.

　　Breaking up is just a closing ceremony. Let me re-examine myself and find the right person is my new starting point. This is the most valuable lesson I learned from this relationship.