Heterosexual relationship, why do women like long ones best？ I didn't understand until after the divorce

　　Many people say that men are always obsessed with their first love. After having a new girlfriend, Bai Yueguang in their hearts is still their first love, and I met such a man, and it was not until after the divorce that I realized how outrageous my mistake was.

　　Men like first love, because in seed of love's age, first love is his best and hottest emotional bloom, and women are not obsessed with that person who has been with them for a long time.

　　01, acquaintance

　　I met my ex-husband on a blind date, but we said that we were suitable for each other. His family's economic conditions were good, which was better than mine. The key point was that my ex-husband was very capable, started his own company, had a car and a house, and was good-looking, so we quickly determined the relationship after the blind date.

　　In our relationship, in fact, both of us just have a good impression on each other, and we only come together when we think it is appropriate. There is not too deep affection between us, and we can't even say that we are moved.

　　After all, before this relationship, I actually had an ex-boyfriend who talked for several years, but we broke up because of economic conditions.

　　02, get married

　　After I met my ex-husband for about three months, we got married. In these three months, we didn't spend much time together. He was very busy at work and didn't have much mood to talk about feelings, and I didn't ask for too much myself. After all, we are all adults, and we don't want to pester each other like a teenager.

　　What I just didn't expect was that our married life was like sharing roommates. My ex-husband couldn't say bad things to me, but he was always cold and indifferent.

　　We don't have too many words. After all, from blind date to marriage, we really don't spend much time together. Originally, I thought it would be like this if we were too strange. It would be nice to get along for a long time.

　　But the fourth month after marriage, it dawned on me that my ex-husband didn't have time to talk about feelings because he was too busy, but because he had a Bai Yueguang in his heart, which was his ex-girlfriend and his first love.

　　On my birthday, he didn't have time to have a meal with me, but he could leave work for his first love and go out to accompany him at night. All his friends around him knew that he loved his first love very much, and all of them would marry me, no matter because his first love was not liked by his parents, but I was the right wife candidate in his parents' hearts.

　　03, divorce

　　Originally, I thought that we all chose the right person as our partner when there was someone in our hearts, because I didn't care if we only talked about suitability because there was no basis for love, but in the end I did.

　　I don't understand why I can stop contacting my ex for the sake of marriage. Why can't my ex? I can't accept the feeling of being betrayed by my husband. After months of entanglement, I finally chose to divorce.

　　Although both of our parents don't understand what I'm doing, after all, in their eyes, as long as they live properly, why should they be so serious? But only I understand that in a loveless marriage, a man who can't even give you responsibility and responsibility is simply unreliable.

　　After the divorce, I actually regretted it. I gave up my boyfriend who had talked for many years and the love accumulated over time, but chose the so-called appropriateness, chose to marry a man I didn't know for a long time, and finally came to the point of divorce.

　　Feelings may not stand the test of time, but feelings that can't be accumulated in time are even more unreliable. Love and marriage that last for a long time are the most suitable choices for women.