Calm down, look down on gains and losses, get calm, and lose indifference.

  The most painful thing in people's life is nothing more than not getting and losing, not getting pain, getting and losing is even more painful, and time flies between gains and losses.

  If a person wants to live a relaxed life, he must learn to calm his mind, look down on gains and losses, afford to put it down, get it quietly, and lose it without being depressed.

  Don't suffer for what you can't get, and don't be tired of fame; I don't regret the past, and I don't feel sad and anxious for those who missed me.

  Fate can be wonderful sometimes. The more you want something, the more you will lose something, so don't expect too much from anyone or anything.

  Because the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment and the deeper the pain; On the contrary, regardless of gains and losses, let nature take its course and you will get what you want.

  Everyone's road to life will encounter gullies and ridges, and the road over mountains and mountains may be difficult to walk, but as long as you persist in walking, you will certainly see different scenery.

  Many times, people are struggling in the suffering of not getting and losing, so that they are exhausted and can't see any hope.

  In fact, it's no big deal to get it, and it's no big deal to lose it. If you adjust your mentality, you can still live a strong sense of happiness.

  Suffering often makes people stronger, while setbacks often temper people's minds. When a person's heart becomes strong enough, he can be fearless.

  Every age in life is beautiful, and there are things to do. Just do your best in everything, and you don't have to care about success or failure.

  No one's life will be smooth sailing. We should learn to face the fate with a normal heart, be calm, be indifferent, and have no regrets.

  Life is short, time waits for no one, not seeking perfection, but seeking a clear conscience; I don't want to be rich and expensive, but I want to be safe. I must be kind to myself and live up to my life.

  -Author-

  Wen Ling, a freelance writer, works in major newspapers and online platforms. This article is original by the author, and it must be reproduced with the permission of the author.