When you hate someone, you don't have to turn your face. This is the performance of the big pattern.

　　The biggest stupidity of people is to punish themselves with the mistakes of others.

　　For example:

　　When you see someone else doing something wrong, you can't wait to make him admit his mistake and change immediately;

　　If he doesn't want to make a change, you will be angry.

　　Others hate you and don't do anything to you;

　　You've been sulking every day since you learned about it.

　　Others speak ill of you behind your back, and through the paraphrases of a third party, it reaches your ears;

　　When you listen to it, it's amazing. It's going to explode.

　　These, in fact, are all unnecessary tantrums.

　　If it is because of a little trouble, your mood will fluctuate and it is difficult to control;

　　How tired is this state?

　　Over time, it will only drag down your body and life.

　　Hate a person, in fact, there is no need to turn your face.

　　Have you ever had such an experience in social interaction?

　　If you like to do something, the other person will come and point;

　　What do you like to eat, and the other person will come over and say that you should not eat like this;

　　No matter what you do, he will run to you and preach.

　　What do you think:

　　If you spend money on eating, you can't waste it if you can't finish it. Packing is a very reasonable and normal thing.

　　He thinks:

　　Packing is a shameful thing, just throw it away if you can't finish eating it.

　　This is the difference between three views and different values.

　　Arguing with such people, even if you argue from day to night, will not have any results;

　　Finally, there is a situation of "injuring 800 enemies and losing 1,000".

　　What's the saying?

　　"Well frogs can't talk about the sea, and summer insects can't talk about ice."

　　Haruki Murakami said:

　　"Not all fish live in the same sea."

　　In social life, you have to accept this fact:

　　Some people like you, others hate you;

　　Some people agree with your three views, but more people have different views with you.

　　To accept that there is a sense of separation between people;

　　Restrain yourself from the urge to argue with each other.

　　Any argument about ideas will have no result.

　　Instead of wasting time and feelings on these people;

　　Why don't you keep your distance from them and draw a line?

　　Out of sight, out of mind.

　　Some people will speak ill of you behind your back and slander you;

　　Some people, face to face, behind a set;

　　Some people will be jealous of you and plot against you.

　　There are too many such people in social life.

　　In contact with such people, you should be more rational and open your guard.

　　However, don't waste all your time on little people.

　　There are too many things worth doing, loving and enjoying in this world.

　　Are there many interesting things?

　　Too many.

　　We should spend our time, energy, feelings and money on things that can make us happy, satisfied and have a sense of accomplishment.

　　The best way to treat villains and people who hate you is to be "indifferent".

　　You should have this determination:

　　"But if I say one more word to you, even if I lose."

　　Think from another angle:

　　The more the other person slanders you and gossips about you, the more he cares about you and cares about you.

　　And the more indifferent you are, the more you ignore it, which means that his sense of existence is lower than that of ants.

　　Think about it, is this the truth?

　　If you hate someone, you should be rational;

　　Being extremely indifferent is the best way to respond.

　　Think of a consulting case.

　　A male reader, playing screws in the factory.

　　He has always had a regret: he didn't go to college.

　　Because his family was poor, he took the initiative to give the opportunity to study to his sister and worked for her to study.

　　My sister graduated from college. He saw that her grades were so good and she worked so well after graduation, and he wanted to make up for this regret.

　　So he studies while working.

　　Living in the dormitory in the factory, 8 people in a room;

　　When he came back from work at night, the dormitory was noisy, so he went downstairs to study by the street lamp.

　　Colleagues around him ridiculed him:

　　"If you can study and pass the exam, pigs can climb trees."

　　"Come on, if you were really good, you wouldn't come and screw with us."

　　For these questions and taunts, at first he was very concerned and wronged;

　　But later, he got used to it and became numb.

　　So while working, while studying;

　　From the adult college entrance examination to the college entrance examination, I was admitted to my hometown.

　　Looking back at those colleagues who mocked him, they were still screwing in the factory day after day.

　　The more people hate you, the more jealous they are of you;

　　Because he sees you climbing all the way up, he has a sense of crisis in his heart;

　　He can't accept that you climb to the top of the mountain and he can only stay at the foot of the mountain.

　　The best response to people who hate you is:

　　Go straight up, and on it, you will have a better view.

　　When you are good, you are surrounded by good people.