Zhang Ailing： The Fragility and Ordinary of Love

　　"Zhang Ailing once said:" We agreed to be forever, but somehow we broke up. Finally, I thought about it myself, and I didn't even know what separated each other at the beginning. Then, you suddenly realize that feelings are so fragile that they can stand the wind and rain, but they can't stand the ordinary; Wind and rain are on the same boat, and they will be scattered on sunny days. "

　　This passage of Zhang Ailing profoundly reveals the impermanence and fragility of love. How many stories that once made us look forward to forever, in the dull life, eventually dispersed in an unexpected way.

　　We count the past, but it is difficult to find the reason why we were separated from each other at the beginning.

　　When we wake up, we find that our feelings are so fragile that we can't stand the ordinary scouring, but we can stick to the wind and rain.

　　Let's explore the true meaning of this love together, and see whether it is so weather-proof or can stand the test.

　　Many people are always full of beautiful fantasies about the future when they start in love. They promised to be together forever, no matter what happens.

　　However, with the passage of time, the triviality and pressure of life gradually eroded this beauty.

　　We began to ignore each other's existence and drifted away.

　　When we finally reacted, the original tight fetters disappeared without a trace.

　　This makes people wonder, what broke the original promise?

　　Perhaps, it is the dullness and triviality in life that makes us unconsciously alienate each other and make love lose its original light.

　　The fragility of love does not come from the external wind and rain, but from the inner ordinary.

　　When love can only survive in romance and excitement, but can't withstand dullness and stability, it is doomed to be short.

　　This reminds me of an old saying: "The prodigal son will never change his gold". Perhaps it is precisely because the prodigal son's life is full of variables and excitement that love appears so bright in it.

　　However, for ordinary people, ordinary daily life occupies most of their lives. If love cannot take root in this ordinary life, it is doomed to be unsustainable.

　　However, there are also people who persist in the wind and rain and can stand the dull baptism. This kind of love is real, tenacious and precious.

　　It doesn't need gorgeous vows, just silent companionship and support.

　　As Zhang Ailing said: "The wind and rain are in the same boat, and the sunny days will be scattered separately." When we face the storms of life together, support each other and grow together, love will be stronger.

　　In such feelings, we no longer imagine love as beautiful, but learn to accept the ordinary and defects in reality and learn to create beauty in the plain.

　　Love needs to be managed and paid, rather than blindly pursuing excitement and passion.

　　When we know how to find happiness in the ordinary, we can make love stand the test of time.

　　In our daily life, we should know how to love, feel and manage with our heart.

　　When we no longer pursue the gorgeous appearance of love, but pursue its inner texture, we can find the love that truly belongs to us.

　　Perhaps, in the fragile and ordinary love, we should learn to cherish the people in front of us more and realize the true meaning of love.

　　Let love no longer just be remembered when it encounters wind and rain, but be stronger in plain.

　　Love needs us to savor it slowly, feel it with our heart and take care of it with our actions.

　　When we understand this, we can have a love that can stand the test of time.

　　In the process of pursuing love, we should learn to find happiness in dullness and make love stronger in the storm.

　　Don't promise forever easily, but use actions to prove the value of love.

　　Only in this way can we have a true love, a love that can stand the test of time.