Philosophical Thinking ｜ Five Abilities to Maintain Excellence

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　　At 9: 30 every night, I will take you to see the world clearly, know yourself and taste life slowly.

　　Keep the goal clear.

　　People with clear goals will have a better sense of direction on their way forward.

　　Set yourself a valuable goal that you can reach through hard work, and then put it into action, and you will feel the happiness and sense of accomplishment brought by chasing the goal.

　　Jump out of the original cognitive framework

　　What traps a person is the limitation of cognition.

　　Emerson once hit the nail on the head and pointed out: "Mediocre people are mediocre because their thoughts are too stubborn."

　　Stubborn thinking comes from cognitive limitations, and it is often cognitive limitations that trap a person.

　　If cognition is limited, it is a blind spot outside cognition.

　　There are cognitive limitations in the upward direction, and there are the same in the downward direction.

　　Break through the cognitive cage and get the maximum value

　　Sunstein, a professor at Harvard University, once put forward a concept called "information cocoon room".

　　It means that the information field that people pay attention to will be habitually guided by their own thoughts. When you accept a single point of view for a long time, you will wrap yourself tighter and tighter like a cocoon.

　　Then, how to break through the cognitive cage is particularly important and urgent.

　　To sum up, in fact, it is only 12 words, which are promoted inward, compatible outward and practical.

　　The process of improving oneself is painful, and compatibility requires accepting more with a broad mind and screening what suits you.

　　The most important thing is to practice, and then continue to recover the gains and losses.

　　Reading one more book, learning one more skill and mastering one more knowledge are all ways to break through.

　　Make a little progress every day, and before you know it, you will go further and further.

　　Be able to adjust mood

　　Most of the hardships in life are planted by emotions.

　　Professor Davis, a psychologist, once conducted a follow-up survey on nearly a thousand people and finally came to the conclusion that:

　　If a person is in a fierce bad mood for a long time, it will not only make a mess of good things, but also lead to family failure and bad career.

　　It can be seen that a person's control rate of emotions has a great impact on life.

　　But many times, the so-called desperate life is mostly caused by infinitely magnifying small things.

　　Having emotions is instinct, and controlling emotions is skill. Only by controlling your emotions can you retain your blessings, and the hardships of life will return to happiness.

　　Have a thirst for knowledge

　　When you reach middle age, keep your spirit.

　　When people reach a certain age, there are less and less two things, one is time and the other is courage.

　　Many people give up self-improvement on the grounds of "lack of time" and "being too old" and gradually lose their enthusiasm for life.

　　I feel that when people reach middle age, they can only be crushed under the mountain of reality, and they have learned to bow to life.

　　Some people, however, have always been brave and invincible, constantly refreshing their life experiences.

　　If you want more possibilities in life, you must keep your curiosity and keep your thirst for knowledge.

　　In the second half of life, manage your own skills and broaden your thinking and horizons.

　　Only by constantly updating and restarting can we continuously enhance the resilience of life and usher in a brand-new self.

　　Find your own value

　　When you blame others for ignoring your love, please think about your value first, which deserves others to treat you with special respect.

　　We are always used to complaining about the snobbery of the world and the injustice of reality.

　　Actually, come to think of it, don't we treat others the same way?

　　It's better to run your own business than to run your own business. When you are strong enough, people you have worked hard to get to know will come to you on their own initiative.

　　Li Xiaolai once said in "Take Time as a Friend":

　　If one day, after a long period of accumulation, someone really becomes an expert in a certain field, he will be surprised that the real, valuable and so-called "efficient" contacts will break into the door.

　　A person's self-worth is the best ticket and the best pass.

　　Therefore, it is better to be strong than to please others.

　　Source: People's Forum Network