Be your own master.

  The insignificance in the eyes of others is not enough to limit my inner ambition.

  Born as a man, everyone wants to leave his mark on this world and realize his inner pursuit and ambition. However, what kind of person you want to be should not only depend on the eyes and evaluations of others. Real achievement and satisfaction come from our inner pursuit and persistence in ourselves, not from others' views on us. As the American poet Emerson said, "If you follow the rhythm of others, you will never leave the shadow of others, and you will not be able to play your drum well."

  The importance of self-awareness

  What kind of person you want to be, you need to know and understand yourself first. This includes an objective analysis of your strengths and weaknesses, understanding your values and beliefs, and understanding your interests and passions. Only by knowing ourselves can we find the direction that really suits us and make firm progress on this road.

  Pursue inner passion and meaning

  We should rely on ourselves, not others, and we should pursue our inner passion and meaning. Life should not be just a monotonous process, but a journey full of challenges and achievements. As the famous writer Mark Twain said, "Two important days: the day when you came into this world and the day when you knew why you came into this world." Only by finding the meaning of our life can we get inner satisfaction in our pursuit.

  The importance of independent thinking

  To be your own master, you need the ability to think independently. Relying too much on other people's opinions and suggestions will make us lose our uniqueness and goals. We should learn not to be afraid of being different, stick to our own views, and dare to question and explore. As Einstein said, "One should act according to one's own beliefs and judgments instead of blindly obeying others' opinions."

  The importance of persistence and perseverance

  Achieving one's goals is not achieved overnight, and it requires persistence and perseverance. We will encounter setbacks and difficulties in our pursuit, but only by moving forward unswervingly can we go further. As former US President Roosevelt said, "Resist confrontation and don't give in. You can withstand everything, provided that you want to be an excellent person. "

  Learning and growth

  What kind of person you become, you still need to keep learning and growing. Knowledge is the cornerstone of our growth and progress. We should remain humble and constantly absorb new knowledge and skills. Through learning, we can constantly broaden our horizons and better understand ourselves and the world.

  Helping others and giving back to society

  It is important to pursue personal achievements and values, but we should also pay attention to society and others. Helping others is an important symbol of becoming a valuable person. Whether at home, in the community or on a global scale, we can achieve greater value by helping others and giving back to society.

  summary

  What kind of person you want to be depends on yourself, not others. This requires starting from self-cognition, pursuing inner passion and meaning, and possessing the qualities of independent thinking, persistence and perseverance. At the same time, learning and growing, as well as helping others and giving back to society, are also the keys to becoming a valuable person. In the pursuit, we should firmly believe in our own strength, constantly challenge ourselves, realize our lofty aspirations and create a wonderful life of our own. As American writer Emerson said, "What human beings need is not an attitude of acceptance, but a courage to dare to question." Let's bravely step out of our comfort zone and dare to pursue our true selves.