Mo Yan： Remember that the greatest secret of success is to do things according to human nature and be a man against human nature. Human nature doesn't like to hear the truth, let alone be challenged.

　　Mo Yan: "Always remember that the greatest secret of success is to do things according to human nature and be a man against human nature. Human nature doesn't like to hear the truth, let alone be challenged. Real masters will follow human nature and not say bad things. If you should say something, stop; If you shouldn't say anything, don't say a word. "

　　In society, there is an iron law, that is, if you say something nice, you can get rid of 50% people, and if you give something to others, you can get rid of 70% people.

　　Say something nice and give something, and you'll get 90% of the people. If you put in your good words and appropriate benefits, you'll get 99% of the people, and you don't have to consider the remaining 1%.

　　Conform to others' humanity and satisfy others' desires, and you can conquer others' hearts.

　　To put it bluntly, it is to do things according to human nature, and you should understand what others think when doing things.

　　Many times, if you don't know enough about people's hearts, you will easily get into trouble. Learn to understand other people's psychology and conform to each other's humanity, and you can stand firm in this world.

　　During the Three Kingdoms period, Tian Feng, an adviser, repeatedly persuaded Yuan Shao not to attack Cao Cao, but Yuan Shao refused to listen and put Tian Feng in prison.

　　As a result, Yuan Shao was defeated.

　　Just when everyone thought that Yuan Shao would reuse Tian Feng, Tian Feng was killed by Yuan Shao.

　　Why?

　　Because although Tian Feng is wise, his mistake is to ignore human nature.

　　Leaders usually don't like subordinates to surpass themselves in wisdom or ability. When you show wisdom beyond the leadership, it will not only hurt the face of the leader, but also undermine the prestige of the leader.

　　In order to save his dignity, it is inevitable that Yuan Shao killed Tian Feng.

　　Since ancient times, everything in the world is changing, only human nature remains unchanged! Insight into human nature, understanding human nature, we can respond to the ever-changing world with unchanging human nature.

　　Psychologist Adler said: "Maturity is not to understand things, but to understand human nature."

　　In life, you will see that the more wise people are, the more they can understand others and understand the weaknesses of human nature.

　　They don't make public and domineering, they know how to save themselves by keeping a low profile, and they know how to satisfy others' psychology to achieve their own demands.

　　Remember, when doing anything, always think from the perspective of human nature.

　　So, what is going against human nature?

　　There are many weaknesses in human nature, such as conceit, arrogance, greed, negativity and paranoia, which are all stumbling blocks in life.

　　Franklin, the father of modern electricity, said: The meaning of life lies in constantly surpassing oneself.

　　Many times, a person's growth is a process of confronting human nature and constantly overcoming his own weaknesses.

　　The so-called self-conquering, truly powerful people are actually "anti-human."

　　Don't let yourself be manipulated by desires, be self-interested and benefit others, and learn from what you know in order to be invincible in the fierce competition.

　　In fact, life is a battle of self-conquest. Some people have defeated humanity, while others have been defeated by humanity.

　　Doing things according to human nature and growing up against it is one of the necessary skills for each of us.

　　Mo Yan deserves to be the Nobel Prize winner. The revelation of human nature in his literary works often makes people realize and think. He also has more sober quotations, all of which are hidden in his new work "Late Maturity Man".

　　After winning the Nobel Prize for Literature, Mo Yan did not take part in activities everywhere to make money by his original fame, but returned to his hometown Gaomi to continue his cultivation on this vast land, and wrote a life legend with his unique imprint with this book Late Maturing Man.

　　The reason why it is called "Late Maturity Man" is probably that Mo Yan wants to convey a kind of values with these four words. There are too many people in this world who are intrigued and vain, claiming to be mature, and he wants to be a late-maturing person, pursuing the inner pure land in the glitz of the outside world.

　　No matter what age you are, I recommend you to read Mo Yan's books, especially this book "Late Maturity Man". Because what you see is not only some stories, but also a sober value. If you can learn Mo Yan's wisdom and sobriety, maybe the road of life will go more and more smoothly.

　　Why is Mo Yan's book worth reading? In addition to writing, I think there is another very important and basic reason, that is, truth, especially his revelation of human nature. Some people always criticize him and attack him. I don't understand why. Just because you told some truth?

　　In fact, there are too few people like Mo Yan in China. In order to produce more Mo Yan, the most practical way is to read more books, original books, his works, his thoughts, his personality and his heart.

　　I have always insisted on reading Mo Yan's books. The Late Maturity Book is right in front of my bedside table. Reading it every night before going to bed has different gains and advancements. Tell you about my feelings about reading Mo Yan's books. The more I read Mo Yan, the more I know that Mo Yan's Nobel Prize is not groundless. It's a pity that I didn't read Mo Yan's books in the early days. Now that I have read Mo Yan's books, it is really worth learning and understanding to learn life and be a first-class prophet.