Jia Pingwa： People who say they are lonely are not lonely. Sacredness is true loneliness.

　　Many people are saying that they are lonely. People who say that they are lonely are not lonely. Loneliness is not being left out and abandoned, but having no friends and not being understood. The real loners don't talk about loneliness, but occasionally do some whistling, such as the animals we see.

　　The weak are gregarious, so there are all sentient beings. The purpose of the struggle of the weak is to transform into the strong, like the transformation from pupa to moth, but once the transformation is successful, it loses the original requirement of satisfying and enjoying desire. Kings are like this, celebrities are like this, making money for the very rich has become a profession, and breeding pigs are not for love.

　　I've met quite a few unhappy people, and I've seen some people who make their skin and hair weird. It seems that they want to be lonely. This is not loneliness, but loneliness. They want to be wheat in June, but when they grow more than a foot high, they produce ears and grains, and they only bear fruits as big as flies' heads.

　　There are lonely people in every profession, and I met one in the literary world. His voice is well-known all over the country, and his slander is also overwhelming. He is always silent, humiliated, living and writing, but I know he is lonely.

　　"Sir," I approached him one day and said, "Think about it. When everyone is staring at a bowl of meat and trying to eat it, you run away from it first. Can you avoid being attacked by a gang?"

　　He listened to my words, didn't say yes or no, didn't stop to shake my hand, and suddenly burst into tears.

　　"Sir, sir ..." I urged him to say more.

　　"I'm not alone." He said and left in a hurry.

　　I thought I was going to be his confidant, but I failed, so why did he cry? What does "I'm not alone" mean?

　　A year later, the writer published a new book. On a page in the book, I read the words "sages are brave, adults should be careful". I finally understood that earthly life will not easily make a person lonely. Living in groups requires a balance. If you don't stand out, you will be ordinary. If you keep walking, you will finally make all beings. Sacredness is true loneliness.

　　It is difficult for people who are lonely to accept pity and sympathy.