Mo Yan： The person you turned over with will never be your friend again. No matter what relationship this person has with you, once he turns against you, it means that you are no longer on the same si

　　Mo Yan: The person you turned over with will never be your friend again. No matter what relationship this person has with you, once he turns against you, it means that you are no longer on the same side. No matter how good the relationship is, it is impossible to go back to the past, let alone become your real friend.

　　It's hard for many people to make a person trust those who have hurt him again, and it can't be done reluctantly.

　　A broken rope has knots no matter how it is tied. The insincere "it doesn't matter" is just a dose of anesthetic, just to temporarily relieve the pain. Once the drug has passed, the pain still hurts, and the powder has to be dispersed.

　　Had hurt feelings, temporarily walk side by side, but in order to let their lives continue. Even if you make a hundred efforts, the other party is not in the mood to accompany you in acting.

　　Those "it doesn't matter" after the injury and "I don't care" after the dispute are just calm on the surface, and the ending of drifting away has long been doomed.

　　Control your emotions, don't say hurtful things easily, and don't do embarrassing things easily, which is the highest self-discipline of adults.

　　Don't forgive those who hurt you easily. It's not about self-cultivation, but wisdom.

　　People who forgive others too easily are not necessarily cultured, but may also be weak. When you let others think that it doesn't cost anything to hurt you, they can hurt you with peace of mind next time.

　　When a person turns against you, a small part of it is that he has not controlled his temper for a while, and most of it is the choice of the other party after weighing the pros and cons.

　　He knows that you will be sad to turn against you, but he still does this, which only shows that your position in his mind is not high enough and the cost of hurting you is the least.

　　Those who hurt us can choose to be tolerant. Because tolerating others is the cultivation of self-restraint, and occasionally caring is your attitude towards others and telling others that you are not stupid. The former is the pattern and the latter is the bottom line.

　　A person should have a harmless upbringing and the ability not to wronged himself. Keep your mouth shut, control your heart, have a pattern and a bottom line.

　　People who understand, the world is sober, and people who understand life are no longer entangled.

　　Mo Yan also shared a lot of experiences and summaries about his own life in his new work "Late Maturing Man", in which he talked about love and discussed human nature with us.

　　The Late Mature Man is his first work after winning the Nobel Prize for Literature, and it is also a contemporary masterpiece that best represents Mo Yan's style. He thinks he is not mature and smooth enough, but late maturity will not consume his innocence.

　　With more profound wisdom and richer experience, Mo Yan described the story of little people in Gaomi, his hometown. There are more than a dozen stories in the book, each of which is so wonderful that people can't put it down and wake up at the same time.

　　In life, you and I are tired of mundane things, and it is inevitable that we will try our best to deal with various problems. If we can re-examine these disturbances from Mo Yan's master perspective, we may be able to produce new solutions.

　　Some truths are hard to be absorbed by others, but often a book and a story can make you transparent. Interested friends can click on the link below for details.