True happiness is the ability to solve problems!

　　In life, everyone will encounter all kinds of problems, and no one will always be smooth sailing.

　　True happiness is not the absence of problems, but the ability to solve problems.

　　Know how to be flexible when encountering difficult things, feel relieved when encountering things that cannot be changed, and maintain a positive and optimistic attitude towards life. I believe that all the good things will come as scheduled.

　　-01-

　　Stand tall

　　During the Spring and Autumn Period, Wei and Chu were adjacent, and villagers in both countries liked to grow melons.

　　Unfortunately, the weather was dry this spring, and the seedlings grew slowly because of lack of water. So some villagers in Wei State have to fetch water to water melons every night.

　　After several days of continuous watering, the growth of melon seedlings is obviously better, which is much higher than that planted by villagers in Chu State.

　　The villagers in Chu were very jealous of this, and some people sneaked into the melon fields of Wei villagers at night to step on the seedlings.

　　When the Wei people were ready to answer blows with blows, a doctor named Song Que said:

　　"If you take revenge, you will get rid of your hatred at most, but they will certainly not let it go. If this continues, both sides will destroy each other and no one will have a good harvest."

　　Then, Song took the villagers to water the melons of the Chu people every night. Since then, the villagers of the two countries have cleared up their differences.

　　There is a saying in diplomacy:

　　"There are no permanent friends and no permanent enemies in the world."

　　When something happens, a real master knows how to turn an enemy into a friend, not an enemy.

　　We don't have to cling to the immediate loss and win, and we don't have to dwell on the present gratitude and resentment.

　　Confronting each other will only hurt both sides. Only by alleviating conflicts and contradictions can we benefit each other.

　　-02-

　　Understand judgment

　　In Who Stole My Cheese, the dwarfs Hem and Haw look for cheese in the maze every day to satisfy their hunger.

　　However, one day they suddenly found that all the cheese had disappeared overnight.

　　At first, they cried in the same place every day hungry, cursing the people who stole their cheese, waiting for the cheese to come back on its own.

　　After a while, Haw began to calm down and wonder why the cheese disappeared.

　　After careful observation of the scene, he found that the cheese did not disappear overnight, but disappeared little by little.

　　Moreover, he found that cheese would never come back, and he would only starve to death if he waited, so he took action to find new cheese.

　　Everything comes to him who waits. After analyzing the maze terrain, he finally found a new place to hide cheese.

　　Hum, who doesn't want to think about ways, is still hungry and waits for the cheese to come back.

　　Come to think of it carefully, aren't Hem and Haw the people who will find a way out when something happens in reality?

　　A truly mature person, when encountering something, does not escape, but actively analyzes the situation, then finds a solution and calmly faces life problems.

　　Because they know that sitting still will never solve the problem or get out of the predicament, and they will only leave themselves in a passive and helpless situation.

　　With judgment, we can better cope with various risk challenges on the ever-changing road of life.

　　-03-

　　Will turn

　　There is a classic sales topic: how to sell combs to monks?

　　When most people see a comb, they naturally associate it with combing their hair. In other words, combing one's hair becomes the intuitive meaning of a comb.

　　It is conceivable that when a person's thinking is limited by this intuitive meaning, it is simply more difficult for him to sell a comb to a bald monk than to ascend to heaven.

　　Sure enough, the first salesman went to more than a dozen temples, but he couldn't see what the comb meant to the monk. Finally, an old monk pitied him and reluctantly bought one, saying that he could scratch it occasionally.

　　But if we break through this intuitive meaning, what will happen?

　　So the second salesman came to the temple. This is what he said to the old abbot:

　　"If a donor comes from afar, we can send a comb as a souvenir, engraved with Buddhist Zen.

　　In this way, they can comb their troubles and miss the bodhi tree at ordinary times, and the incense of the temple will always be strong. "

　　The old abbot nodded repeatedly, bought 1000 combs at once, and signed a long-term supply contract.

　　You can't just rely on brute force.

　　Some roads, when it is difficult to get through, can also reach the end by learning to turn.

　　-04-

　　Relieved

　　There was a sports meeting in primary school, and two girls fell down while running. Someone around laughed, and one of the girls got up with a red face, afraid to look at the eyes of people around her; The other girl got up and patted the dust on her body and continued to run forward.

　　Later, the little girl with a red face couldn't let it go. She always felt that everyone around her was laughing at herself. After a long time, she became inferior and cautious.

　　In fact, this is only a very small matter, and we should let it go when it is over. Keeping it in your heart will only put a heavy yoke on your mind.

　　In life, we may also be worried about something that has happened and put ourselves under heavy pressure.

　　There is a saying: "You can't chase after going to Japan, but you can still expect it tomorrow."

　　When something has happened and we can't change it, all we need to do is learn to let go and move on.

　　God is fair to everyone. When it closes a door, it will definitely open a window.

　　And the scenery outside the window may be more beautiful.

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